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[wolverine1997]

Question to all. How can I go about doing an 180? My wife only talks to me about kids, bills, etc. She won't talk to me about anything else or spend any time with me. Usually I would try to engage her in converstation, ask her about her day or tell her about mine with little interest from her. Now that I'm not pursuing and not trying to engage her it seems that I am doing exactly what she wants. She doesn't want to talk. So am I playing right into her hands? What to do.