Whatever you do, DON'T feel you have the need to contrast yourself against the OM. DON'T COMPETE with him. First off, she see it as it is and secondly it will make you look insecure. Not exactly an attraction buzz for her.
Why don't you go out on the weekends and ignore her like the OM does? Give her some well deserved ALONE time.
I'm really inclined to do just that and try to stay as dark as a I can given the kids. It's tough though to go and do something with the kids and NOT invite her.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
