I'm sorry for your situation but that is pretty damn awesome you have all that should you choose to end your M. I know it has burned me out to deal with my W, especially considering her other issues which make the denial much more dangerous.
I'm sorry to hear that, I know just how much this sucks now and feel for you. I owe Puppy a great deal of thanks for getting me to look behind her lies and actually verify what she was saying; I didn't believe she was still involved with the OM and I was SOOOO wrong. Puppy's advice got me motivated and I have what I have because of his good counsel. Trust, but verify - this just might be my first tattoo! Good advice for us all......Mike
Good advice for us all......Mike