What does your L say about the Satan comment and this crazy behavior? I don't think it's nit picking at all. I think it's clear cut parental alienation AND crazy behavior to boot.
I'm concerned that your w is headed down a dangerous road wherein she'd say anything to hurt you and or get the kids in full and you are not seeing that. I'm concerned that your L is not proactive enough. Please tell me that she, THE L, is doing something about this. She does not require the LG to tell your w's L that you won't stand for this and I honestly think a psych eval for your wife is called for or at least implied.
Your w needs to back off big time from bad mouthing you to the kids. The more you let her do this FIB, the more she'll take. I fear for you. I really do and I want to know why your L says if you leave the home you'll never be divorced...??? I am NOT saying to leave, but am saying this is sounding fishy to me. Like churning legal bills. I think you said you like your L so I don't want to interfere in that R, but I DO want to know wth is getting done about your w's vicious sick comments To you and about you to the kids...Doesn't take a guardian ad litem to tell her to shut up b/c she's saying a nasty WEIRD thing...takes a serious letter from YOUR L to HER L that says "knock it off or we'll request a full psych eval b/c SHE IS NOT FIT as a mother, and if she were, she would learn to keep her nasty mouth shut..."
FIB, healthy women don't tell their kids that their dad is satan. (I'm Catholic, trust me on this.)
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016