Once you are talking again you might ask, "Explain how this situation is different from what you did to me?" If she can't, then it may start her thinking. If she has a justification (but its not a good one) you can point that out too. How were you to know that she was 'thinking that the marriage was over' and then suddenly changed her mind?


Me - 38
Husband - 40 MLC!
Together 12 years
Married 11 years
Still the love of my life
Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair

H started D paperwork 5/13/10