I have a story here and you can go back and see it if you like.
I HAVE TO COME CLEAN. Just one day before my wife told me that she wanted to reconcile.(after waiting since she threw me out last September)
I had an evening affair with a friend that had been comforting me.
When my wife asked me I told her. Now even thought she had a long lasting affair with her ex boyfriend and I was all alone trying to get her back as she slapped me down every time. She does not consider what she did an affair because she was "done with the marriage".
I went and spent the weekend with my wife in her new city after I helped her drive 24 hours and moved her in. I wanted to save the marriage but we got in a big fight and she bought me a ticket and sent me home 2 days early. That day she texted me that she was sorry and wanted to try this again sometime and I sid I wanted that too.
She has alluded to us working on things in the past so much and this time I was just too hurt and have my own self to take care of. That night I ended up in bed with someone.
The very next day, Wife calls and explains to me that she has been awful and she wants so badly to save the marriage. What could I do? I said nothing about the night but I was longing to tell her. She does not have the capacity to forgive in her like I do.
She asked so I told her, now She feels betrayed.
(So did I)
It does not matter that I felt this way too. I am a liar and a cheater and for some reason she is not.
What am I gonna do to make the least forgiving woman in the world stop being hypocritical and forgive me as I forgive her?
