Over the Shock and GALing 5

[Thinker]

Well,

As someone who used the "I don't want to talk about it" when I was "happily" married - it was easier for me to open up when we were playing - i.e. hiking, movies, vacations, car rides, etc. I know that sounds simplistic and I'm not as familiar with your sitch but I've found the suggestion "hold still and let the butterfly come to you" quite helpful.

Thanks Silver Fox,

I think that is basically what I am doing right now - being friendly, happy, living my life, and not trying to chase her.

I think her request to start MC is a sign that she wants to talk, but feels she can't do it one on one.

I'll keep doing what I am doing for a while longer - giving her "friendly space"

On that note, got to go rally the S4 and S6. It's Saturday Pizza-making night!