Appreciate the comments and I'm definitely going underground for the next few days. As for the pics, I can appreciate the criticisms above but I can say with confidence it's not petulance or a display; i just don't want to see those pics right now and she's not in the house. I might put a few of the obvious ones back before she returns but I'm also addressing my needs and those reminders are not what I want to see right now.
As for the lawyer issues, there are no underage children, I'm not the father of the 25 y/o and, despite her abhorrent behavior in our marriage, we had already talked about having a civil divorce and had agreed on how we would divide and proceed; I see no reason for that to have changed as a result of this last issue. If it goes sideways I will certainly engage outside counsel, I just don't think that's necessary right now.
Thanks as always, will check back in later this weekend with additional thoughts/questions.
