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[mishka422]

Thanks Ms M. You could have something there with the mirroring statement. He obviously doesn't get my boundaries though even though I've told him repeatedly what is and is not ok with me. I don't want there to be contention between us in general because it has and effect on Marc.

He does feel guilt about not providing for Marc and he has verbalized that to me. Yes, it still strikes a cord with me when he mentions the broom. Not that she exists, just that he keeps trying to push his agenda of getting me to see her as a kind, wonderful person. Nope, not going to do it, not ever. He doesn't understand that and won't let it go. Frankly, I could care less about her existence as long as she doesn't mess with my son's head. That's the only reason I ever have thought #1 about her. He wants us to be 'friends'!!! Good God! Blech! She is not the type of person I would ever befriend because of her low morals and lack of integrity or honesty. Simple. Personally, I think he wants that because it would assuage his guilt some more if I liked her. Gee, that's just too bad.

The friend I'm taking to the concert tonight has never been to a large scale ocncert before. This should be fun. She says she's not a "concert person". Well, for her first experience she's with me on the floor, 18 rows back, surrounded by screaming fans. This should be quite an interesting nights. We're staying at the hotel attached to the arena so we can do whatever we want, drink whatever we want, and not have to worry about getting home.

I'll tell y'all about it tomorrow night.....HUGS to all of you!