I don't have that answer even for myself. If I truly need help or feedback on something I will ask. He will ususally help me do something, but I haven't asked for help on anything really big or time consuming. Feedback is another thing. I was told recently that when I update and ask for feedback on D's he thinks I want him to "fix" it right now. I expolained that wasn't what I wanted and I was looking for his input b/c I feel like I mucking things up. Needless to say, I don't ask anymore. I update on the serious stuff and sadly there is too much of that. What I find to be serious has changed too.
If you've been asking for help try not. If it works great, if not you can always change it.
