I'm doing a lot of esteem building with her now because of the job loss and that's clearly helping her. She's also very appreciative of the fact that I was totally supportive about her change in financial fortunes and that I insisted she stay at the house and that we could live off of my income as long we had to, regardless of what our marital outcome will be (I don't want to see her suffer).
Mike,
Circling back and reading your sitch, I came across the above. Not today, but this one thing that's going to have to change. Simply put, there are things that a man is willing to do for his faithful wife, but these kinds of bets are off now.
