for my situation, pursuing and pressuring is when i harp about the ow, nag, plead or beg.
when i am friendly and he is responsive, to me, its a good thing.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
