PA or MLC or both?

[2inlimbo]

I can't believe I'm saying it but S may be the best option. H is constntly threatening to leave. I have made whatever changes he's asked and it's not enough. He is distant and cold. I think I could do better self-care with him gone. I also think staying in the same house is in no way making him want to stay together. He seems to despise me more each day, treating me rudely, and not involved with the kids at all.

Fallgirl, I think that was brave of you to say that to your H. But very caring, given your concern with the sleeping pills.

It's nice to hear some of the posters say that kids may be better off with S. Right now my H is being such a distant, uninvolved jerk that in no way are the kids in a good sitch now. The many meltdowns and tears they're having is proof of that!