Stuck Thanks for the opinion...I will put you down as a "tell her to GTFO".
Unfortunately...I have not reached that point in my mind yet. Things could sour quickly with us at this point living in the same house, but I have decided with the recent news, I will not be the one to leave.
My thinking lately has her giving up completely, packing up and leaving herself. Some of the snooping turned up some comments about an apartment search.
You do make it sound very simple, and I wish it were like that for me. Although as I sat at the house with her last night, I felt myself looking at her, finally, in a different light.
Those feelings of wanting to go to her, fix her and make this all go away are leaving me. I thought about the past year and the closeness, and right then, last night I could not feel that desire to hold her, kiss her...be with her.
What is going through my mind more as the days go by is the logistics of this whole mess....the house, the finances..the dog..the cars...the reality of it all instead of the emotions.
She has been under the impression that I was going to lay down and roll over for her when the time comes. Who knows what her reaction will be when she doesn't get what she was promised.
