Yes, please post a bit more info and then others can post and help you more also. I agree with Kat, time helps. IC helps if you're doing that, and def. helped me. I found that prayer helps me, but I know that's not for everyone. I do think if your M is going to work at some point you have to forgive and move forward, but I think it prob. takes a period where the WAS has to earn your complete trust also, not an instant process. Karen
