Walkin' Towards The Blessing!

[FaithfulH]

Well, dear Friends! I thought today might be a good time for a quick update. It is my lovely D's 22nd Birthday....and tomorrow is my lovely W's and my 29th Anniversary!! I have come to expect that things will continue to get better and better....even when that does not seem possible! And whenever I feel those inevitable moments of frustration, depression or despair....I simply pause to ask God to help me deal with it....and He always does! I also ask Him to keep showing me what got us to the point where my W saw separation and D as the only way out...and He does! I just shared with my friend Lovenomatterwhat on his sitch that I think we sometimes fail to understand how much our sitches ARE about us and our healing and growth. I am a "work in progress" for the rest of my life!

For any newbies to DB, I want to encourage you to press forward and keep on walking out of the pit....your spouses ARE worth it! Some who lose hope here will try to tell you that your chances are slim....I don't believe that for a second....if YOU keep walking it out. That is not to say that EVERY M will be restored...we may never know what God's bigger purpose is in those....but, I think far too many fail because the LBS gave up too early. I want to encourage you to keep moving forward even when it feels like you cannot. The blessings on the other side of the mountain of pain are worth every tear!