To turn the thought around. What are some things that make you attracted to a guy?
Our WAWs have told us we are no longer "attractive" to them. We've heard that it takes confidence to seem attractive. Is this true or is it also a bit physical?
Any other women want to contribute?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
I'm attracted to guys that are intelligent, stimulating, and fun-loving. A guy who is in touch with his creative edge and has a sense of humor is very attractive. A guy who takes fatherhood importantly and is not afraid to show his love for his child/children. And of course, a guy who knows how be romantic without being asked is another plus.
Physically speaking, a fit guy with broad shoulders is appealing.
Hmm...I think I just described my H before the separation...
Me 40 WAH 43 T 4 years M 9 1/2 months stepson 9 He left 3 1/2 weeks ago No D filed
As a guy I can only speak from my own experience. From what I have seen with women looks are not nearly as important as they are for a guy. Generally women want a confident, stable guy who has a sense of humor and knows how to be romantic. Doesn't hurt to have a lot of money also. If you got money then all the other stuff doesn't matter. Think back to how you were and the things you did when you were dating your wife. That's what she likes. Oh, and get lots of money. Seriously though, confidence is a must.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Ladies, here is what I feel are attractive traits in a man, let me know if I am off base.....
Confident, well groomed, a good listener, humorous, thoughtful, fun, compassionate, spontaneous, respectful, honest, open, relaxed, considerate, intelligent, romantic, passionate, forgiving, patient, interesting, humble, ......And good in bed
I find those are attractive traits in women.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
Gotta agree with most of that. But I think confidence is at the top of the list. Confidence is probably the one quality that you could not take off that list and women would still find the guy attractive. I believe that most women consider a man without confidence to be weak.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Maybe it's me, but do you ever notice sometimes that you seem to attract Woman when your least expecting it? When your really not feeling like a babe magnet at the time? Like when you might be about 12 to 14 hours overdue for a shower, your hair hasn't been combed, your most likely hung over from the night before, and you really just don't give a rat's arse what they think about you?
Weird, but attraction happens at the most inconvenient times and places sometimes.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
Think back to how you were and the things you did when you were dating your wife. That's what she likes. Oh, and get lots of money. Seriously though, confidence is a must.
