Hey guys and gals.

Golf was good. Shot 46 even though I missed 3 putts of less than 5 feet, so it could have been a pretty decent round.

S17 was thinking about spending the weekend in our hometown so I told him ask his mom to make sure she didn't have a problem with it. So he TM'd her and she replied that she didn't think it was a good idea since today W and I are going to go help S20 move from his apartment into a house at school and if S17 was gone, then our 3 month old puppy would be home alone for probably 10 hours or more. S17 was kind of upset so I called W at work to just discuss with her and she was pretty ok on the phone. I agreed that it wasn't a good idea for S17 to go and the call ended.

She got home from work an hour or so later and came out on the deck where I was sitting and she started talking and talking and talking. Seems her bi*chy attitude was gone.

We ended up going out to dinner at "our" bar/grill and had a great time. A really great time.

W had a little too much to drink and ended up falling asleep on the couch. When I came downstairs this morning she was laughing that she woke up at 5 am but didn't want to come upstairs because that would wake the dogs and then there'd be no more sleep for one of us, and you know who that is.

During our date, she was talking about "us" a lot more, talking about long range stuff, was telling me about a conversation she had with a lady at work about her boss and a conversation her boss and I had one time when I was doing a presentation at the Refinery. When W was relating the conversation, she used the words "my husband" a couple of times.

So anyway, I've rambled on long enough. Guess that "angry" period was short lived and she's back to the engaged person she was earlier this week and the previous week.

But there's still that "something" holding her back.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.