stuck I have tried for the life of me but cant find your post, im sorry im not very proficient with this site, theres a lot here. can you help me out, title or something?
PAUL... my friend, your gonna be the bad guy no matter what you do thats why we go dark, because at least then, we cant be blamed for sticking our noses in and trying to hard. it doesnt mean you dont respond to HER should she come to YOU, but basically means you concentrate on your life, and respond only when asked to.
in the end no amount of advice really matters to your sitch believe me - advice only helps YOU not the marriage; thats up to her as well, if shes not going to be in there helping it then its going to fail. One person alone cant make a two person marraige work. its like rowing a boat with one oar. you go in circles. you can HOPE she comes to the boat and picks up that oar but you must get on with life realising, she may never.
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.
