Hi Drew, I meant to get back quicker but have not felt well the past few days. I have an illness that gets me down at times, so don't think I'm ignoring you if you don't hear back right away.
I don't have a good feeling about the twins. It sounds as if they are degressing back into a isolated state of just the two of them and closing out the real world and especially anything unpleasandt they don't want to deal with .....like going to see SIL H's headstone. That is not normal from where I come from, but then I have had to deal with deaths in the family. If they have never had to deal with a close death, them maybe it scares them to much. It does seem SIL would want to go to see her H's grave. In most cases that I'm familiar with, that is what the S wants to do most.....is go to the cemetary.
It's late here and I can't write much tonight, I am very concerned about this and wish the parents would step in to get the girls to go to professional help.
Stay in touch.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
