You will hear a whole bunch of these cliches, if you haven't already, till you're blue in the face and every once in a while you will get very annoyed with the stupidity behind some of these "wise" saying:

"children are resilient, they'll be fine"
"time is your best friend and your worst enemy"
"you have a choice"
"the glass is half full"
"you will find someone else"
"the kids will figure it out one day"
"you need to move on"
"its only money"
"what she does is none of your business"
"be strong"
"let go"
"your lawyer needs to know that"
"are you seeing a counselor for that"
"society is not to blame for any of this its the individual"
"you must carry your cross"
"its OK for the ex to be with an OP in front of the kids as long as she's happy"
"you need to be happy"
"life is short"
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