I see the date that you first Registered. Was that when you were trying to save your first M?
yes it was. my XW was a WAW and i prolonged the M by 18 months from the day she announce she wanted a D by DB'ing. but it still failed. It was a learning experience and my relationships have been better since. but i've never experience codependency before. it's strange and i'm just now figuring out this week how i/we got there
i'm glad you and PDT took the time to post here. i've read many of your posts in other areas and value both of your opinions.