Hey ((Julia)), Well I was flip flopping a bit on what to say. First, I was p*ssed like mishka. Granted he is in lala land, but he did offer to take his things & help move you. He even said he would be happy to. Part, I think is lack of communication. He didn't tell you or ask what days would be good (DAM) & you did tell him either (other than not on your b'day). Could it be that he assumes you have already found a new flat to rent? Neither one of you are mind readers. I don't mean to come off as crass, but that's how I see it. Yet, I'm in zero expectation land, so my view might be skewed.

I totally agree that it's annoying that he doesn't get back to you straight away & then expects a response straight away. He's on the train, a good time to chat maybe about all of this moving bit?? Is your not responding straight away a 180? When do 180's finally become more of the same?? Seriously, anyone have thoughts on that? (I was horrible at 180s).

Hope you have a nice weekend, Julia!


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