What are your boundaries? Are you guys living together? Is she depending on you for financial support? Forgive me if I am missing something- I haven't had time to go back and research posts.
I wouldn't enable her affair by paying for her cell or computer time.
We are still living together and sleeping in the same bed, however no intimacy since shortly after discovery of the EA.
She has been out of work for 6 months and only recently got a part time job, so she has been totally dependent on me financially. Given the economy and our current financial situation, I anticipate this to be the case for some time.
I have not canceled her cell phone service, although doing so and smashing her damn I-Phone are both very tempting. Not sure if that would help my cause in the long run as one of her complaints is that I have some control issues (she can't seem to distinguish right now between a concerned husband and someone who is trying to act like her Dad).
I am trying to strike as best a balance as I can without enabling her in some way, shape or form. That's tough to do when she seems to have most of the control right now.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
