point taken PDT. thank you. I have to figure out how to show strength without seeming like im an a**hole. I guess just being firm and stand my ground without giving her an order is the way i should go. i used to be this way but like everyones said, we've both become codependent.
on the other hand tho, she hasnt had contact w OM since Tuesday, so i don't know if it's worth bringing up at this point. i'll just watch and see what unfolds on her part
