i did thank him when he brought it, he knew i was surprised.
we are on very good terms, our daily interactions are fine, truthfully i go above and beyong what someone else in my shoes would do.
when he showed up this morning out of no where (and scared me half to death), the first thing i did was thank him for bring the certificate and offered him a cup of coffee.
he is in a crisis right now that only he can figure himself out of.
i have done absolutely everything i can, i have stood by him and continue to do so.
i have pulled back, just enough to not pursue, yet im still being cutesy and being me.
i do not mention ow, or the fact that he made it sound like we are finished for good (nothing ever came of that).
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09