Thank you everyone for taking the time to post on my sitch. It definately helps me stay focused where i need to head next.
part or the reason i didn't bring up OM is that i wanted to wait and see where it headed. without letting her know i checked up on her, i just verbalized that i wasn't happy with her or approved of what shes doing.
she txtd OM all day tuesday. i looked today, and she has not called or txted him since then, tho either. this is part of the reason i didn't want to bring it up as i wanted to see her actions. also saying i didn't approve of her talking to him specifically may only have made her to do it more, so that's why i didn't.
she called this morning wondering what i was up to. i kept it brief and very friendly (polite not flirty). no arguements, not even a hint of one brewing. asked what i was doing today and kept it vague, appointment at 4:30, run to the bank, and then some other errand stuff. She asked what i was doing at 4:30 and i said getting my haircut.
she said if i ever needed to talk to her or something came up that i should call. i said ok. she started talking about the dog(s) and she started rambling, then scolding the dog, at which point i said i'd let her go. goodbye, and hung up.
it felt good and i feel good, especially now that i'm home and got my hair colored and cut. if she even shows up on sunday, i want to look better then when she left, to remind her what she's missing. i need to go buy a nail kit and do my nails lol.
OH, i hate waiting! i'm the most impatient person in the world, but after reading some of the quotes on here and doing a search on google, it helps me stand firm for what i'm striving towards. I love my W, and i want her back.
