Hey Stuck. I want to read your thread and answer within the context of your sitch. Also, I was pretty close being WAS myself in my R so I can relate pretty well to the W.
I'll tell you one thing. When H walked away, that sure changed the dynamic and fast but I am hell-bent on staying married and he knows it. So I guess I'd like to know, how much value does your W place on M as its own entity? I mean, does it torment her to think of D or does she see it as something that just happens? I'm curious what you know about her feelings re this, pre-bomb...
