{{{hugs}}} to you. Just stay busy...... really busy... focus on life without him. This doesn't mean to be mean or nasty. It just means you don't really have the time for him. This is what you need to do for you. Completely detach and start over. Thank goodness there are no kids. Much much MUCH easier to move on after that. Meet someone really nice... actually meet lots of really nice people to spend your life with. Eventually, someone who thinks the world of you, and will never want to let you go, will find you. Hang in there...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
