In my sitch, my W had a change of attitude when she started working in the North Big D and I mean the city Big D. She started working with and entertaining people with power and $$.
No I can't compete with that not do I want too. I am who I am, I know I needed to change. But if I had lots of money, that's not how I was raised and I don't want my kids thinking that's all that life is about. Money is good to ahve but it isn't everything.
More than half of the stories she told me about these people, they were never happyu with one another or themselves. The H's were cheating on the W's. The W's knew and would do nothing about it.
But I like what someone said that when we work on ourselves, we're doing it to make us better. The S's will more than likely be the same person and that's sad. Because they will realize when it's too late all that they lost. And for what...I bet they won't even have the answer to that one.