You do demonstrate a lot of emotion over XH and "the broom" (case in point).
In simpler terms:
I think you haven't let go to some extent and you need to, otherwise it will consume you.
Yes, you have to communicate with him about your son. and that's where it should stay, nothing more, nothing less, and yes hostilities will accomplish nothing, kudos to you for that. In a matter of 5 minutes I can go from a peaceful conversation with XW about the boys to being on tirade because OM has not had the brass to tell me his intent in my kids life. That's all that erks ME in my sitch now, maybe the same for YOU?
Other than that, I don't listen to a darn thing XW says about who does what, I don't care and don't let it consume one fraction of a second of my time. My time is that once again, MY time, she gave it back to me and I'm going to enjoy it to the fullest
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
