When you see the C Monday I hope you tell the C how many people urged you to see him/her and why. Don't walk in and say "oh My w left and I'm a little depressed..." b/c that's NOT nearly what is going on here. But you have to lay it ALL out to the c, and tell them that you say you've "never been happy before meeting your w, and cannot be happy without your w", b/c you "don't know how to be happy" (with or without her actually), and when you were married, you drank too much & passed a job to her, she wanted out, you lost your job, moved... and the whole...shebang. Then get to the part where YOU START CHANGING YOUR LIFE NOW.
Otherwise the c will have less than a quarter of the story and you won't get anywhere with them - and you desparately need to get some movement now. Don't hold back. Tell them the real FULL history of this experience and the behaviors and choices made that you say you don't want to repeat. Get goals, and help. This is not a small task. Ask them their speciality or area of expertise. See if they think they can help you and then decide if you will let them, which means DOING YOUR PART...not waiting or doing the "Secret" thing that will win your wife back. This is so much bigger than getting your w back...IF only you could see that.
J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
