With all due respect, EO, that's bull$hit. And it's typical infidelity "script" to boot. You showed that you weren't willing to live in an open marriage? And there's supposedly something WRONG about that, that it makes him "afraid" of you??? WTF???
LOL! If Puppy wouldn't have said it I was going to. Honey, they all say this kind of stuff.
Like Puppy I've been studying alot about infidelity for over four years. I've been on several relationship forums- read books- etc- what your H is doing is script.
Is there anyway you could have someone spy on him next week while you're on vacation?? Why isn't he going with you????
Hi, Kitty. Spy on him? LOL Well, I've still got the software on the computer to track what he's doing that way. And I have neighbors who can drive by to see what he's doing I think. He's not going on vaca with us b/c he's been saying that he wants to be alone for months. So, when we made plans to go to the beach, I invited him. But he said that he couldn't get away from work. I've seen his work calendar (went to his office unannounced yesterday when he wasn't there) and he does have meetings. So I don't think he's going to meet the therapist. I imagine her life is in turmoil right now.
Me 39, H 41 M 17, T 21 Son, 4 Bomb 2.09, Two EAs Separated 8.4.09 My Long Story and First Postings
