I'm so saddened to hear your circumstances. What a horrific thing to live through only to come out the other side without the support of your H.
I have no clue how you would go about reconnecting with someone who so obviously doesn't want to have anything to do with the M and family he left. I only have a few things to suggest regarding protecting yourself and your child.
1)You said he removed your from your joint insurance policy? Is that legal in your state? I know that in my state (GA) a spouse can not remove the other from insurance (including car, home, or life insurance) without written permission from the other.
2)Please get an attorney immediately and file for child support. Your H needs to MAN UP and take care of his child financially even if he is not willing to care for him emotionally.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!