Nope not at all, I decided a long time ago that I was going to be me no matter what. No more always acting happy if I'm not if she calls and I'm in a pissed off mood, she knows it, not in a mean way nor do I take it out on her, I just tell her. It doesn't happen very ofter but it does and if she ever does want the M to work she needs to know I'm not in a great mood all the time, just 99% of the time .
Oh and she's never told to not ask what she's doing sometimes I do sometimes I don't. She just never, or I guess, almost never asks what I'm doing.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
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