"Maybe the lesson there is that she wants to be so special, so cherished, that really, no one else could get on the radar screen. This is great intel for you!"
I think you're right to a degree about this. This may go back to her dad walking out on her family at such a young age. Someone else posted that it's something you don't forget and you want to be given those positive emotions that you didn't get when you were younger.
I just don't want to overdo it right now. I'm nice and keeping all interactions friendly and fun to draw her closer to me which I think I have been doing. It's almost like getting a wild animal to come closer to you. I make things positive, shrug off the negative (this is something I had to learn because I had a bit of a temper) and keep them going.
I'm going to take yours and Coach's advice to keep making myself better while she works her way through the fog. If she comes out of it and notices me standing there all buff, confident and successful, its her choice to take it or not.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
