H says the EAs are just blips in an otherwise long history of being unhappy, way too many conflicts, financial betrayals that changed the course of his life for the worst, and on and on. It's a big "S*&$ sandwich," to use his words and he wants to take back control of his life to make it happy.
Yes, I know that is typical affair garbage. But we did have conflict for years before the EAs. We've been together for 21 YEARS, married for 17 YEARS and we are only 39 and 41.
Script. Rewriting history. Gaslighting. Call it what you want but don't let this typical WAW B$ ruin YOUR memories and your view of yourself. You were there too and you know what happened.
Conflict IS part of marriage and part of life. It's what you do with it that counts.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
