You've come to the right site. This place will provide support and encouragement for you. Everyone here is experiencing the same kind of heartbreak that you are going through.
First off, you can start your own thread and give us some more background of your situation. Give advice and encouragement to other threads as well. We are all in the same boat.
Next, start reading Divorce Remedy if you haven't. Like this site, it will become your lifesaver.
Lastly, know that you are not alone and you will get though this stronger. Be kind to yourself. This is all about you saving yourself. All the spouses that are left behind, including myself, we all hope for reconciliation. But we know we have to be of the mindset that if we end up divorced, we'll be okay.
I've only been separated for a few weeks. I cry every day. I fake being happy. I'm in the process of GAL(getting a life). But I really don't have any other option. I do this so I can survive! And I know that things will eventually get better for me. That I will survive and be a stronger person regardless if my H comes back or not.
Me 40 WAH 43 T 4 years M 9 1/2 months stepson 9 H left 3 1/2 weeks ago No D filed
