How Do You Forgive?

[eternaloptimist]

EO,

I wouldn't make any big decisions today, or even tomorrow for that matter. You need to clear your head and figure out what your boundaries are (I personally don't believe in dating other people while still married, but that's between you and your husband. Just don't agree to it unless you believe in it).

In the meantime, as I just posted to you on one of your other threads, learn the fine art of "I'm sorry you feel that way," and keep your distance. Have you read up on "dropping the rope"?? I think that would be my suggestion.

Puppy

As always, great advice, Puppy. I don't think H will really want to date over the next year. He just says it will be weird living in the same house. I need to reaffirm my commitment that our marriage is not over. He doesn't even want to take his wedding ring off, even though he feels the marriage is over, or rather says it's over.

I need to read about dropping the rope for sure! Is that on this board? Or in a book?