Meaning what? Go dark, move on, get a divorce now, give him an ultimatum, tell him he has a week to get his stuff out?
Nope simpler yet deeper than that. You, Aliveandkickin, are the leverage in your world. You are all the leverage you need.
Ok, to start with, I looked up the definition of leverage just for the "fun" of it-
these were the pertinent ones to me:
Positional advantage; power to act effectively To improve or enhance the ability to influence people or events the quality of having a superior or more favorable position bargaining chip
What stand out is that I think I have more to lose than he does...financially, emotionally, logistically etc. That scares me. Just being honest here...gonna dig deeper and just share what comes up.
