I think the problem here is that my H DOES NOT WANT to do anything to save this marriage. He's done. He doesn't want to put forth any effort. Why would he if he doesn't believe anything can change?
Eternal, It sounds like you don't think anything can change. You can do nothing to change your husband. Guess who has to be the one to change? Change some of your beliefs, stop mind-reading, and adopt a growth mindset. That is if you want to see things change. You can handle it. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
