M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
.....OK....semi flip coment coming so watch out........I think you might just be the right woman.....I think you can compete with young, rich, successful women......you won him the first time.....you must have the keys to his heart-soul....and that other thing too!!! SO........from a guy perspective...I can understand the not enough thing but it sounds like you may have the upper hand here in just about everything else (that really counts)....and just don't know it??? Maybe????
.....OK....semi flip coment coming so watch out........I think you might just be the right woman.....I think you can compete with young, rich, successful women......you won him the first time.....you must have the keys to his heart-soul....and that other thing too!!! SO........from a guy perspective...I can understand the not enough thing but it sounds like you may have the upper hand here in just about everything else (that really counts)....and just don't know it??? Maybe????
I think I've got it. That's why I'm here. However, you can lead a horse to water...
Gonna give that some more though too though. What I bring to the R and to the world that is specific to me and valuable.
Meaning what? Go dark, move on, get a divorce now, give him an ultimatum, tell him he has a week to get his stuff out?
Nope simpler yet deeper than that. You, Aliveandkickin, are the leverage in your world. You are all the leverage you need.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
OK alive& ....I am in the middle of a job search project in addition to everything else so I have to go for bit....you hang in there....have to go do some calls......be around later.....
.....one last comment.....the "coach" was spot on......I think. I still think you have the control......he may be a bit flaky right now but you are going to be successful......I REALLY LIKED THE LEVERAGE comment.....have to take that one to heart!!!!
.....one last comment.....the "coach" was spot on......I think. I still think you have the control......he may be a bit flaky right now but you are going to be successful......I REALLY LIKED THE LEVERAGE comment.....have to take that one to heart!!!!
Later Bill PNW
Thanks, I'll check out your sitch later. Ironically, I give pretty good advice.
