.....OK....semi flip coment coming so watch out........I think you might just be the right woman.....I think you can compete with young, rich, successful women......you won him the first time.....you must have the keys to his heart-soul....and that other thing too!!! SO........from a guy perspective...I can understand the not enough thing but it sounds like you may have the upper hand here in just about everything else (that really counts)....and just don't know it??? Maybe????