Well, in my situation, I really have to watch that whole making him want me thing. He wanted me sexually, we ML many times and that wasn't enough. I can't compete with young, rich, successful women. I'm not even going to try. I have gotten in great shape and have exhibited that I am a loving, intelligent, loyal and capable woman. But, my sitch is a bit different in the extreme polarity of what our life together offers vs. his rock-n-roll life.
The wild card is that we are his family, that I am his wife...I can't make it enough for him. He is either going to get it or not.
Funny, post sep, he wanted me sexually and to hang out and be friends, and to have family time...it is called cake-eating, he wants everything.
