Seriously, I did ask her "What was different this time? You've NEVER wanted to go for ICing before!" and she said "I was just ready. I didn't care (about any hangups, etc.) this time -- I just knew I was ready for some help." (or words to that effect).
Once, again, Corri's famous "You can't see what you can't see. Until you do." seems to be proving out.
Awesome!
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
Seriously, I did ask her "What was different this time? You've NEVER wanted to go for ICing before!" and she said "I was just ready. I didn't care (about any hangups, etc.) this time -- I just knew I was ready for some help." (or words to that effect).
Once, again, Corri's famous "You can't see what you can't see. Until you do." seems to be proving out.
Seriously, I did ask her "What was different this time? You've NEVER wanted to go for ICing before!" and she said "I was just ready. I didn't care (about any hangups, etc.) this time -- I just knew I was ready for some help." (or words to that effect).
She also said that she basically DOESN'T FEEL EQUIPPED to be making a potentially life-altering decision of this magnitude (whether or not to divorce) when she's not in a healthy emotional state herself.
She's showing a maturity that I haven't seen in her before, and that's good -- however it comes out.
Puppy
Wow- This is WONDERFUL news, Puppy! So happy for YOU!!!!!
Me 39, H 41 M 17, T 21 Son, 4 Bomb 2.09, Two EAs Separated 8.4.09 My Long Story and First Postings
Pup, I'm happy for you too. I think your priority list is right on. I think this is the first time your W really has put in full effort. This needed to be a deal-breaker. I'm glad she is realizing that! Also, Puppy I have a ? on my thread, I was hoping for your advice. It's so hard to know what to do in your own sitch sometimes. And thanks for posting the update on your sitch. ((((Pup))))))
