One of my boundaries has always been if I'm being treated fairly
That can be very unhealthy. How do you decide if you are treated fairly? Do you treat everyone fairly? Who judges you? Define fair. Do you think the world treats you fairly? Do the work on yourself CIPA. You constantly look to find out what is wrong with your W and if she would just fix it then everything will be fine for you. Seek first to understand then be understood.
That's a very interesting question. My definition of fair...
Dang it - just when I thought I had defined a NUT
I will have to think about that as in retrospec, I don't feel like this situation is fair at all to the kids but I also know its not fair to "force" her to stay.
I'm open to other thoughts/opinions on fairness
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
