Seriously, I did ask her "What was different this time? You've NEVER wanted to go for ICing before!" and she said "I was just ready. I didn't care (about any hangups, etc.) this time -- I just knew I was ready for some help." (or words to that effect).
She also said that she basically DOESN'T FEEL EQUIPPED to be making a potentially life-altering decision of this magnitude (whether or not to divorce) when she's not in a healthy emotional state herself.
She's showing a maturity that I haven't seen in her before, and that's good -- however it comes out.
