I see.....not sure where to go from here. Seems like if he wants to be with another woman then that is is both problematic and an opportunity......can you be that other woman?......I ask because I have considered separation......but I want desperately to be with the woman I married.....shes not on that page (at all)....so this is a reversal.......of sorts.....how to get him to want you is the question......wish I could shed some light on that.....I have half the equation but can't seem to crack the code to the other half......assuming you want him vs letting him go to someone else..........what needs to happen for him to want you.......seems to be the issue.