.....was there any discussion of what the separaton would accomplish....how long it would be.....any ground rules? Sorry....a bit new at this stuff.....
He sort of moved out over 5 months ago but just a duffle bag and him staying at friends' and traveling...just running away. At that point, he was "done." But, with an office here and our kids and our necessary contact, we blurred the lines, hung out, intimacy etc.
Now, we are talking about a legal separation and he knows little about it. What I take from it is that he just wants to feel "not married" anymore.
Maybe we should just divorce so that we can toss out that marriage and then see if we can start over...
As for details, honestly, I was too caught off guard. I did say the idea of legally separating or divorcing just so he can feel ok about scr*wing other women is sad to me...but, I plummeted fast and hard into R talk instead of keeping it cool. It was too loaded with the other women talk...I want to feel like they are separate issues.
