My situation #9

[steady]

Thanks Coach. I've been taking notes and journaling for months now. We're going on 6 months since she rebombed me with the D. And of course I have all the documention that I've been doing here since last July.

I am fighting for 50/50 with my kids. I am totally involved in their lives and the only thing my W does that I don't is shop for their clothes - but obviously that's something I can do. I have been spending a lot of time with them as she takes of, sometimes impulsively, and goes to her mom's and stays there overnight.

I've pretty much stopped posting a lot of the stuff her because it's mostly journaling day to day things mixed in with some relevant stuff.

I'm hoping the psychologist will be able to sift through her stuff and see her lying and manipulation of the truth. Sometimes I get the feeling I should be embelishing like she is but I refuse to do that. If I don't get what I want because the truth that I hold to doesn't stand on it's own then so be it. I'd rather be able to say at the end that I stuck to the facts and didn't need to try to manipulate the situation.

I have been feeling really good and have actually detached more than I thought I would be at this point. Her actions and the things that come out of her mouth have helped me detach a great deal. I don't recognize the woman who she has become.

Anyway, thanks for stopping by Coach. I always appreciate your input.